Hi guys! Just a little quick update before I go to bed. *I had a seriously long nap from 6 to 8pm and I am tired now for it is 11.30pm. goshh, what's wrong with my body?
A friend of mine has just texted me telling me she is bored. I once had this feeling before back in a few months ago. When you have nothing to do, boredom strikes and I guess being pessimistic is a form of self defense towards boredom. The longer you are bored, the more you will think and the more you will appear to others to be depressed. That's just a... cycle?
It didn't take me long to understand why I appear to be happier and upbeat since semester 2 started in July - and why I had such a wonderful semester. Even though I was busy with studies and assignments, couldn't stop complaining about how much I hated assignments, I did enjoy the time. That was the precious time when I could get rid of boredom and yes, no longer needed that pessimistic to fight.
You may be like me. I simply got off to a bad start in 2013, but I definitely grow up throughout the year. People around me were my role models - for getting in a negative atmosphere around negative people, in the beginning I got defeated but sooner or later I realised the negative attitude that I had developed was MY own problem. I began to observe myself and began to understand: that wasn't what I wanted, I was expecting nothing good.
In fact, on the other hand, for mixing around with positive thinking people, encouragement comes from any source. Recovering from disappointment of any kind is not something that just happens to anyone else. That was the decision to gather the fragments, face the unpleasant past and let go.
Therefore, get a plan up for the days! I'm taking charge of my own life: don't let life to manage you; you manage it. It is not merely getting up every morning, get dressed and waiting to see what happens. Soon, you will realise how much your day would be if you took time to think about what you are about to do before you do it.
Well, just sharing my random thoughts, but this was my true experience. Perhaps my words are not encouraging enough to make everyone to think positively (oh sometimes I do think negatively), you should probably stare at the picture below! BAHAHAHA
HAVE A NICE WEEK AHEAD!
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